1. looking-out-for-love:

    the-hurt-and-forgotten:

    jacoblasher:

    loveandbelieveinfaith:

    Boys have struggles too, why does everyone forget that?

    Maybe they don’t forget about us. Maybe they just don’t care about us because they feel like we’re not important since we been stereotyped as heartless. But we’re not. Not all guys are going around sleeping with every girl they see or breaking hearts. Some of us had our heart’s broken and been traumatized. It makes us feel worthless because we are outcasts in an already outcasted community. But no one cares. No one cares about us and it hurts.

    No one will ever care, because we’re expected to be indestructible, but we aren’t. A lot of us hurt. But we keep it inside because society told us it was wrong for boys to open up and talk about things.

    I love this

    Yes, those issues are multi-gender issues that affect more than just women, but I’m curious about how many people here are more concerned about men’s rights than about advocating for gender equity. Do y’all realize how much privilege men are already afforded simply for BEING men?? Do y’all realize that usually whenever men are stereotyped, it’s in ways that attempt to solidify one’s masculinity/competency, and when women are stereotyped it is typically to demean or dehumanize them, to equate femininity to weakness and subordination? The point I’m trying to make here is that men already benefit from make privilege in a patriarchal society that objectifies women, resulting in violence and sometimes even worse outcomes. So before you go complaining about “men’s rights,” maybe you should consider just how the patriarchy functions and reconsider your views on just how unfairly women are treated within the patriarchy. Yes, it’s important to remember that issues like depression, suicide, self harm, etc. don’t affect just women, but that does NOT mean that those issues affect men the same way they affect women.

    (via come-along-riversong)

     


  2. fuckyeahfeminists:

    vriska:

    lo-db:

    cybercitrus:

    adriofthedead:

    welp

    This is a very dark day.

    and people wonder why i laugh whenever they try to go “YEAH WELL THIS IS WHAT THE DICTIONARY SAYS” because come the fuck on

    nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnooooooooooooooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

    table flipping princess bubblegum

    ^gif sums up my feelings

     

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  4. janetmock:

    When I was thrown in the headlines for my Twitter/Tumblr commentary on the saga that is Azealia Banks vs. Perez Hilton, I knew I needed to occupy some space to expand this matter - hence my xoJane piece “How I Landed In the Ring with Azealia & Perez”.

    It’s about the weight of our language, about our society’s creation of victims-villains, and about how we must all - media makers, famous folk and pop culture consumers - hold one another accountable for our biases, words and actions, no matter what bodies they come from and the ones they hit.

    (via queervomit)

     

  5. thehomohelpnetwork:

    Just refer to this post for a good example in how not to be a good person.

    Had an unfortunate experience with a gay friend of mine today who posted one of those annoying “Dumb poses all girls do” posts. As usual, trying to point out the misogynistic themes in it only led him to being defensive by trying to play it off as a joke. Being gay does not excuse misogyny. 

    (Source: potpourrireverie)

     


  6. jawdust:

    hipstersbleedroses:

    Open question to the Internet: Why is it apparently mysogynistic of men to get excited about the Olympics women’s beach volleyball because there’s pretty ladies jumping about in tight sport bikinis, when half of the female Tumblr population has done little else this week but perve over the Olympic male swimmers in their tiny swimming trunks? 

    Because female athletes aren’t considered to be serious competitors. Because the women’s football tickets are being given away, and the men’s football tickets cost thousands upon thousands of pounds. Because female athletes struggle for sponsorship unless they’re stereotypically aesthetically attractive enough to get modelling deals whereas Wayne Rooney’s neanderthal face gets paid millions. Because male athletes are valued because of their prowess, their skill, their charm, and female athletes are valued for their bodies. Because Michael Phelps breaks records and is a national hero, and Ye Shiwen breaks records and is accused of doping. Because the male gaze is a product of hundreds of years of oppression, of complex gender dynamics, of sexualisation and sexual exploitation, and there’s no female equivalent. Because the female exposure of the body is a sign of vulnerability, of sex, of reproduction, of physical use and nothing more, whereas male exposure is a sign of confidence, of power, of physical strength. Because women are naked on the covers of magazines to pleasure men and men are naked on the cover of magazines to inspire other men. In other words, the world is backwards, and twisted, and complicated, and your observation is perversely oversimplified.

    (via lighthouseaccident)

     


  7. Rape is on the increase, reported and unreported, and rape is not aggressive sexuality, it is sexualized aggression. As Kalamu ya Salaam, a Black male writer, points out, as long as male domination exists, rape will exist. Only women revolting and men made conscious of their responsibility to fight sexism can collectively stop rape.
    — 

    Audre Lorde

    rape is not aggressive sexuality, it is sexualized aggression.

    (via ceedling)

    (Source: omnivincitamor, via lighthouseaccident)

     

  8. (Source: teddie-marie, via spectrumwolf)